5.11.16 – Preparing for Departure

Hey, you look good today. Tomorrow’s a big day for me. I depart from O’Hare airport in an ungodly hour, have a two hour layover at San Francisco, and go on a 10 hour flight to Japan. I’m tense with anticipation, but the enemy of any form of stress is organization. I go through a mental list of everything I have and everything I need every 5 minutes. For instance, my nursing training has led to a bag with a mix of over the counter medications that I may need: acetaminophen (Tylenol) for my occasional headaches, some diphenhydramine (Benadryl) so I can somehow combat jetlag, some baby aspirin to thin out my blood so I don’t develop a blood clot while I’m on the plane, meclizine for any nausea I may experience from the travel, and, of course, loperamide (Imodium), just in case my gastrointestinal system commits treason. I’ve also made a grocery list that I can work on right away so I can get settled as soon as possible and get to the fun part of the trip. I’m also still chugging along on learning some essential Japanese (e.g., koohii shoppu means coffee shop and toire means toilet). For emotional/spiritual preparation, I am watching The Secret Life of Walter Mitty (highly recommended) to remind me to not be boring, to take risks, and to be brave. Maybe I’ll experience some spiritual enlightenment during my travel, transcend even more than I already have, and be completely liberated from these earthly shackles crafted by human vices. Well, if I do, you’ll know about it on this blog. Stay tuned.

Trailer for Walter Mitty: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HddkucqSzSM

Gratitude: Thank you to my pals (Edith, Cindy, and Kerry) who have helped me move out of campus, and to Robert (and family) for sheltering me for the night and agreeing to wake up with me in the aforementioned ungodly hour to drive me to the airport. I will bring you to a koohii shoppuu and treat you to hot chocolate when we reunite. Oh, and friend in Japanese is tomodachi. So thanks, tomodachi,

PS: The Dalai Lama is in Japan right now, and Barack is going to Hiroshima, Japan on May 27, making him the first sitting American president to visit the historic site. I guess both of them heard I was coming.

7.23.16 – Farewell

I was irresponsible and did not do a proper farewell. My internship ended on July 8th, and I lived with my family in Yokosuka until July 16. Now, I’m home in California trying to get my life together.

There was a small lunch for me on my last day, but it was business as usual for the most part. These “final days” always intrigue me because I always find them so unceremonious and anticlimactic; the same thing happened on my high school graduation and will probably happen when I wrap up my time at IWU. I think the numbness is a mode by which I can still be functional while experiencing profound emotional inertia during times of transition. Life is hard. I was glad some of the students I got to work with, great friends, were able to carve some time out of their busy schedules to go to Izakaya with me.

Before this internship, I had to write some goals down on a learning contract, and one of the goals (out of silliness or seriousness or both, I don’t know) was to make new friends. Mission accomplished! I made a lot of new friends who are cooler than I can ever hope to be. To them, thanks for being so fun and melting my heart.

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Cheers to friendships that last more than one lifetime – and thank you so much to the IWU Freeman program for everything.

7.6.16 – Mt. Fuji

Last Saturday, I climbed Mt. Fuji. I began at 7am with my Uncle Ed, Aunt Evelyn, and Cousin Emika at Station 5, so it wasn’t completely at the base of the mountain. Station 5 is a popular starting point. There’s really not much to the story. We showed up, and we climbed.

A popular souvenir is a hiking stick that you can get stamped at various points on the mountain. This is a picture of my first stamp. Unfortunately, I was too anxious to finish the hike and divorce myself from the stick once we got back to the apartment, so I don’t have a picture of the finished product. However, my favorite stamp is of the Torii gate (I don’t have a picture with me because the stick is at my aunt and uncle’s place, so Google please).

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(I really like torii gates. Tattoo idea? What do you think? ) To be honest, Mt. Fuji was an ugly mountain. The beauty is the view FROM Mt. Fuji, which was definitely not ugly. Anti-ugly: Beautiful.

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Also, we should talk about the damage. First of all, I realize that prolonged sun exposure results in sun burns. But I hate sunscreen. It makes me feel slimy. And it was chilly as we got higher, so I thought… oh maybe I’m okay without sunscreen. I associate sunlight with heat, so the chilly weather was convincing enough to be a sunscreen-pass. Guys, don’t fall for it. Always use sunscreen. Also, I got disgusting tan lines from my sunglasses. I look like an inverted raccoon, with paler circles of skin around my eyes.

I think the toughest thing, though, was the wind. The wind launched dirt and rocks all over me. I had boulders in my eyes, and I ate so many rocks by accident I felt like a cartoon caveman.

Here’s me entering the summit. Look at that beautiful torii gate. IWU, maybe a torii gate can be added to campus?

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We finished the climb around 5pm. I would consider doing it again, with lots of sunscreen.

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6.25.16 – The Classroom

Technos International Week has just ended, meaning that the entire student body (including myself) is combating some inertia to get back to business as usual. Exam week is in two weeks, so the students need to get a handle on the material soon.

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I haven’t talked much about the classroom.

Greetings carry more meaning in Japanese culture. This is how each class begins and ends:

As my boss and I enter the classroom, all students rise and stand in an “attention” position. One student (whoever is “assigned” that day) says, “Good afternoon Aaron and Kyle,” and everyone repeats. Then, the assigned student says, “Please have a seat.” Once everyone sits, the assigned student says, “Meditation for one minute,” and everyone meditates. Once one minute passes, the assigned student says, “It’s over.” The meditation comes from the dojo and is called mokuso, a closed-eyes meditation; the idea is that it puts everyone into a mode of attention and focus. Class begins.

When class ends, the students stand and do the same thing with a “Thank you and goodbye” farewell.

This is the routine that I participate in. I wonder how that would go in the American classroom? I know that some progressive schools have incorporated mindfulness in the curriculum so that meditation is scheduled throughout the school day. I’d be down to meditate right before a medical-surgical exam with the rest of my class.

Whenever I’m not in class practicing with the Technos students, I’m in the English office in the Skill-up Room (where students come to improve their English language skills). Many of them come to me with diaries that they have to keep to improve English writing, or other written homework assignments. My job is to proofread them and make sure the students understand their errors.

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However, I think I am more useful when students come to practice speaking with me. This is important, as some of their exams are oral exams. Professors would have “topics” that are to be discussed with the student one-on-one, and the students are graded on how well they can carry the conversation, coherence, pronunciation, and so on. As a person who knows very little Japanese and likes to talk a lot, I am a pretty good practice tool.

Moreover, students also have to take a public speaking course. Some students are assigned a poem (Robert Frost’s “Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening”) that they need to recite in front of the class—a challenging task when considering that Japanese curriculum does not have a lot of emphasis on public speaking or presentation giving… not to mention in English. Students are also graded on intonation, clarity of pronunciation, memorization, and so on. Students rehearse such a poem with me, as I can hear which words sound odd and which aspect of their speaking should be worked on more. (The word woods is tricky for them; they always say uuds.) I like to draw from my 7th grade drama class when I practice with them, as gestures are encouraged. (But don’t poets discourage gestures since they distract from the language? Still.)

Prior to International Week, I did a similar thing with almost all their presentations on the tours they gave to the international visitors. That was a trickier task since everyone had their own part to present about a specific place in Tokyo (e.g., Asakusa and Sensoji Temple) rather than everyone being assigned the same poem.

There is also an advanced public speaking course in which students have to convince the class that ____ is awesome (e.g., aliens are awesome, rice cookers are awesome, and so on). I help students structure their ideas in the basic introduction-body-conclusion format and find ways to express their supporting ideas for why ____ is awesome. This was one of my favorite classes because it was one of the first times I saw a lot of personality come through. Japanese people are typically reserved, but the “____ is awesome” project allows them to express an interest. It’s a bit of a throwback to show-and-tell days.

Then there’s the not-as-sexy stuff that are still very important in education. I grade exams, for instance. There’s actually a national standardized English test coming up for the higher-level students, and I graded their practice exams last week. It pains me to be the one giving the dreaded red marks on their Scantrons—but it also makes me feel powerful. I also have to make a part of a class’s vocabulary midterm exam. I now give kudos to all the teachers I have ever had because making exams are (almost) as challenging as taking them. I keep scratching my head trying to think a good singular sentence problem that assesses their grasp on the words cluster, perish, and immense simultaneously.

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This internship has given me the backstage look at the education, which is interesting since I have only been participating in education from the role of a student. Add on the cultural differences and things become even more fun.

6.19.16 – Kyoto

Two weekends ago, I went to Kyoto, one of my major goals for my visit here. It is said that this is the traditional center of Japan. Four hours after my shift ended on Friday, I was on an overnight highway bus, popping some sleeping pills for the bumpy ride. My three cousins were kind enough to accompany me.

Our first destination was Fushimi Inari, but I mostly wanted to go for the line of torii gates. Look at it! It just keeps going and going and going. There were a lot of women in Kimonos taking advantage of the surroundings to get a good profile picture for their Tinders, Facebooks, Instagrams. It was so funny to see them pretend to be walking down the torii path, looking back in a “natural” way to make sure the picture looked genuine, organic, authentic—oh, this picture was just by chance, I didn’t even know they were taking a picture. People, if you’re trying that hard, maybe it’s not worth it, Kyle thought after failing at an attempt to do such a pose.

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There were a lot of fox statues. Foxes were thought of as the messengers of Inari, the Shinto god of rice. They’re classy.

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Oh and I found an example of evolution’s mistake. Look at this disgusting creature. What is it? A dinosaur?

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The next day, we went to Kiyomizu temple. Here, I received an unexpected gift. I went into Mother Buddha’s uterus. Here is the handout I got that talks about it:

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It was fantastic. I felt freedom in the uterus. As I ascended from the exit stairs, I was reborn.

They also had a lot of these rope—bell—prayer apparatuses.

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I prayed for balance, contentment, and freedom of spirit. What I should have prayed for was the bankruptcy and dissolution of the NRA—the rifle association, not the restaurant one… although the restaurant one seems shady too.

The next shrine I stumble upon, I’ll pray for gun control legislation.

PS: Have you noticed my safety cardigan? I have so many pictures with it. Part of the reason is I didn’t pack very well, but I also just really like my cardigan.

 

6.15.16 – International Week Begins

It’s that time of the year for Technos College—International Week. (It’s really almost a fortnight, but I guess it doesn’t have the same ring to it.) A lot of the students are excited to make new foreign, English-speaking pals. The Technos sister schools are from China, the United States, England, and New Zealand. Of course, Illinois Wesleyan is in the house:

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Unfortunately, the weather wasn’t the best during the opening ceremony. Still, each guest gave a mini interview about their first impressions of Japan, Tokyo, and the school. They were all projected onto the jumbo screen that yours truly was featured in a few weeks ago. I was able to snap a picture of the IWU representatives. Here’s one of my internship advisor:

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I also hung out a little at the welcome reception. I talked to a few of the guests (who all looked jet-lagged). I was chatting with someone from Connecticut, and she said, “Did you study abroad in the United States before? Your accent is very American.”

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It just makes me happy to see the Technos students being so excited. It’s the middle of the semester for them, and they need some relief from school routine. And I bet they feel relieved every time they finish their assigned International Week presentation/tour that they’ve been working on for the last month. For the past few weeks, I’ve been checking their grammar on their presentations, working on stage presence, working on pronunciation, and such.

I’m fortunate enough to tag along on some of the events. This Saturday, if the weather permits, I’ll be going with the international visitors to a baseball game. Also, on Monday, I’ll be going with the professors to tsukiji fish market and Odaiba.

I have to work a little backwards and tell you about my trip to Kyoto next… then more on International Week!

On other news, my favorite band is coming to Chicago in September. I gotta buy my ticket! Not a day goes by that I don’t listen to Lake Street Dive. So listen to this song over and over and over again until I post again.

 

 

6.9.16 – Hello Kitty Land

I remember, in my high school Japanese class, Aihara Sensei distributed brochures he got from Hello Kitty Land in his most recent summer visit to Tokyo, Japan. Last Saturday, I got an updated version of the brochure myself when my aunts decided to bring me to the theme park. I’ve got to say that I was quite the buzz in the English office as people asked me what I was going to do over the weekend. They told me to give them a detailed report on my return the following Monday.

I really found myself there. It was a journey of self-discovery. Here are a few pictures:

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Also, there was this one ride we went on that was a rent-a-car ride. I thought, Wow, this place couldn’t even make it seem like you owned the car. Anyway, we rode the rented car to three spots where our pictures were taken, and we have the opportunity to buy the set of pictures. Basically, we rented a car to go on a photoshoot. Oh, and the pictures cost 900 yen (about $9). Who knew Hello Kitty was a greedy Wall Street capitalist. Here’s a picture of the rent-a-car ride:

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Anyway, good times. My aunts told me they thought I was the coolest out of all my cousins. Just like in Golden Gai, I highly recommend going to Hello Kitty Land. Once. No more no less.

6.4.16 – Golden Gai

Last Saturday, I went to a place called Golden Gai, or piss alley. It’s a series of small bars that can only seat 4 to 5 people. I found out about this place from watching some YouTube vlogs of people visiting Tokyo for the first time. I have to say that getting to this place was shady. First of all, I think someone tried to steal my wallet. It wasn’t particularly crowded, and this man got close to me and brushed his hand against my bottom. I would have thought that he was only a pervert, but I felt a finger try to get into the pocket. I turned and looked right at him, but he wore a oh-I’m-just-drunk-I-don’t-know-what-I’m-doing look on his face. I was going to set him on fire. The incident happened right in front of this PG-13 restaurant that had two robot women welcoming customers, especially tourists:

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Oh, and while I was about to set someone on fire, another person came from behind me and tried to shove a flyer in my hands with a picture of a naked woman. He asked me if I wanted a sex massage. “NO!” Kyle lied. We (my cousin and I) walked around this interesting place, and I also saw a major fist fight. It wasn’t much of a show because the other guy fell right onto the ground after a single punch. Call me old fashioned, but I like a little more foreplay; small punches first to build the suspense. I was concerned about the man’s safety, and I asked my cousin if we should help. “NO!” he said. And all these people, some with children, just kept walking by. I don’t know where my ethics were, but I kept walking because the victor of the match was still majorly agitated. Next thing would have been me as the next floor-man. I just pray that there was enough alcohol in original-floor-man’s system to give him enough analgesia. Oh, and I forgot to mention that this was about 9pm.

At this point, I remembered how I saw some Mormons proselytizing at the major train station in the area a week ago. I was so happy to see them. I thought, You guys came to Tokyo with me?! It was a flashback to how they would socialize with me back home. Maybe I’ll tell them about this place next time I see them since this place definitely needs their attention.

Great place. Highly recommended. Don’t go alone. Only go once.

5.31.16 – About Technos

The institution I’m interning at is Technos College, specifically in the Tokyo Air Travel Hotel Department, wherein students learn how to be flight attendants, hotel & hospitality employees in luxury hotels, and English speakers. Some of them are even learning Spanish. Thinking about myself, I can barely speak proper English, and the rate at which I can speak Tagalog is 1 word per 20 minutes. Here’s a picture of my ID picture being shown on the big quad monitor to communicate to everyone that they should all say hi to me in passing:

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I think I gained a kilogram of weight from the increased ego.

Here’s what I do: I sit in classes and help with English language exercises, host their vocabulary quizzes, grade quizzes, make quizzes, make copies, practice interviews, establish an atmosphere of English speaking by not being able to speak Japanese, help plan for International Week (which I’m super excited about), and socialize with the students. Here’s a picture of me working with a group of students who are planning the Tsukiji and Odaiba tours for the foreign professors visiting for International Week:

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Coming into this, I was nervous because I didn’t know how I would be seen in the eyes of students who are around the same age as me. However, these students have hearts of gold. For instance, they enthusiastically and consistently say hello to me every time I pass by; they do so with more excitement than I have ever seen from my siblings when I come home for Christmas. They are curious about my life, just as I’m curious about theirs. We talk about our ambitions, our friends, what places we want to visit in the world, their work-life stress being in the middle of their semester. I like to think that my job description also includes cheerleading, as many of the students are juggling a part-time job, 8 hours of school Monday to Friday, a 1.5 hour commute to and from school, stressful job applications, and so on, and they need a little boost. I use a lot of the active listening I learned from my psych clinical two semesters ago.

Also, people’s stories are so interesting. There are a couple of students who were born in the Philippines and moved to Japan. There is a student who was born in Mexico, and another one born in the Middle East. There are some students from Hiroshima and Fukushima, which are two places I have seen in the news and in history classes but never thought I would meet people who were born and raised there. The teachers are also interesting. They come from Canada, the United States, Australia, and the UK. One of teachers was born in Bellflower, CA, which is approximately 30 minutes from my house—small world. It’s a thrill.

 

 

5.24.16 – Family Reunion

My family spoiled me last Saturday. They decided to drop by from Yokosuka with a cargo of American groceries, since my aunts were concerned about my general ineptitude. They also took the time to educate me on proper ways of sorting my trash (which is serious business here in Japan) and showed me how much taller I have gotten since 6 years ago when I last saw them. Also, I met my new uncle Ed who is adding some diversity to the family, which is always a good thing. He’s a swell American Navy sailor who learned how to drive on the other side of the road, which is a significant accomplishment. (To illustrate how impressive this feat is, imagine playing the mirror cup in Mario Kart at 150cc.)

I went to a more traditional restaurant with them. We caught up over some great food. Here’s the food, layout, and my cousin making an important call to Bernie Sanders:

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After, we made a quick trip to Asakusa’s Sensoji Temple, but we unfortunately arrived right when the place was in the process of closing. There’s a huge bronze incense burner that emits some fancy smoke, and people would surround it and try to expose themselves to the fancy smoke in order to ward off any illnesses. My nursing training has committed me to being very against smoking in all its forms, but my sense of integrity is flexible, and I’m always willing to take a break from my values. I was huffing that stuff in. I do have to come back here soon, as I need more time to appreciate the site. My family had dinner reservations that we wanted to make on time, and we still had the Tokyo Skytree to cover, so we skedaddled after a picture:

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The Tokyo Skytree is a landmark of Tokyo. It has two observation decks, but we only had the time to look at the lower one. They had photo stations at the tower, and the employees would try to get us to bring our arms over our heads in a triangular orientation, much like the A when you dance the YMCA song. At the end of their countdown, you’re supposed to say “sky TREEEE” in place of cheese.” We weren’t as fun because we decided not to do the end of YMCA. Still, it was a kawaii picture:

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And here’s a picture that doesn’t do justice to one of the most beautiful sunsets I’ve ever seen:

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To end a great day, we celebrated my cousin Emika’s 20th birthday, which is an important birthday considering that the legal drinking age is 20. The restaurant was right outside of the Tokyo Dome. Oh, and the restaurant is called Bubba Gump Shrimp–the Bubba Gump Shrimp. You may be thinking that it wasn’t the most culturally interesting meal I ever had, but you can tell that to my long island iced tea and the big shrimp I danced with:

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It means so much to me that this internship has given me the opportunity to not only travel, but to see loved ones as well. Thanks!

5.19.16 – Ueno

Today, I went to Ueno Park. One of the first noteworthy things I saw was block of umbrella users:

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There’s obviously some sort of umbrella convention in town.

I also saw so much of this:

 

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So there’s obviously some hats-for-children convention in town as well, right next to the umbrella one. Tokyo is always so busy. (I had my pediatric clinical last semester, and I’m terrified of children. However, I have to say that these kids are SOOO kawaii when they’re traveling herd-like.)

The Tokyo National Museum (TNM) is inside Ueno Park. TNM is the oldest, largest art museum in Japan, and it’s one of the largest art museums in the world. I have to confess something right now: I don’t really appreciate museums. I try really hard to, but I seldom get emotionally moved by static art. I never took an art history class, nor have I felt much of an affinity to visual art. This confession makes me feel gross because I feel like I’m missing out on cultured taste. I mostly go to museums to look at pretty architecture, go to a nice café by a fountain, and be able to tell people I went to a world-renowned museum (I’m doing this to you right now). Anyway, here’s me showing attendance:

 

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Ueno Park was delightful. I spent most of my afternoon here (and it was free):

 

 

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I stumbled upon the Ueno Toshogu Shrine, which had the archways and the hand washing I talked about in my Meiji Jingu post. Here, I got my sister a charm for educational success (she really needs it), and I got an ema:

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It’s part of my anti-bored movement. I hope you’re well. Tomorrow marks my first full week in Tokyo, so I’m celebrating my learning how to do laundry:

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-Kyle S.